How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 03:20
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Why is only the left side of my vagina bleeding, on and off?
Hangs out with loser friends.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Does not procrastinate.
Where did Noah build the Ark? Was it in a desert or near water?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Have you ever accidentally found out that you were about to be fired?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
That's it for today.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Hillary thinks we must censor or "we lose total control". Why does she demand total control?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Have you ever dealt with a Christian narcissist?
Ask yourself:
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Are there any industries or sectors where ChatGPT is particularly well-suited for implementation?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Making more friends is a goal.
What was your best experience of having your navel touched?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What I need from you?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Procrastinates a lot.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.